FAQs
What time should I arrive for the ceremony?
We recommend arriving 15-20 minutes before the start of the 4:00 PM ceremony to make sure everyone is on time and seated.
What is the dress code for the wedding?
The dress code for our wedding is formal attire. There is no specific theme, so feel free to choose your favourite formal wear. The bridesmaids will be wearing long dresses in a beautiful dusty rose color. Additionally, there will be a short outdoor lawn cocktail, so plan your footwear accordingly.
What is the schedule for the wedding day?
The wedding day will begin with the ceremony at 4:00 PM. After the ceremony, there will be a cocktail hour, followed by the reception.
Is there parking available at the wedding venue?
Yes, we have arranged for ample complimentary parking at the venue.
Is it acceptable to take photos during the ceremony or reception?
We appreciate your enthusiasm to capture our special day! However, we've decided to have an unplugged ceremony to create a more intimate and distraction-free atmosphere. We kindly ask that you enjoy the moment with us and refrain from using electronic devices during the ceremony. It allows our professional photographer to capture the most beautiful and genuine moments. However, you are free to take pictures/videos during the reception.
Can I bring my dietary restrictions to the couple's attention?
Please inform the couple of any dietary restrictions or allergies during the RSVP process.
What if I don't RSVP?
To help us with planning, we kindly ask that you RSVP by the deadline. If you are having trouble RSVPing, please contact virgandalden@gmail.com. Unfortunately, if we do not receive your RSVP by the deadline noted on the invitation, we will have to mark you as "not attending". We will miss celebrating with you, but we do need to finalize guest count for the venue and our vendors. We hope you understand!
What gift should we bring to the wedding? Do you have a registry?
Your presence at the wedding is a gift in itself. We do not have a registry. However, an envelope box will be available at the reception.
Can I bring a plus-one if it's not explicitly mentioned on the invitation?
We appreciate your understanding that our wedding is an invitation-only event. We kindly ask that you adhere to the names mentioned on the invitation. Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate other extra guests due to venue capacity.
Is it recommended to book a room at the wedding venue?
While l'Abbaye d'Oka does offer accommodations, it's important to note that, in order to preserve the historical integrity of this heritage site, air conditioning has not been installed in the rooms, and communal bathrooms are provided. However, all main areas, including the ceremony and reception sites, are equipped with air conditioning for your comfort.